Today I blew it and this post is my attempt to do penance for my mistake.
Brad and I have talked for a couple of weeks about how he needs a haircut before he goes to his next med school interview. We timed it very strategically - he couldn't have one last week before the U's interview because we didn't want him to look quite so much like the typical freshly returned missionary from BYU. But he has an interview this weekend at the Medical College of Wisconsin (near Chicago - if he gets in there, everyone should come visit us) and we wanted a freshly cut look for that interview. (This is a great place to look like a typical BYU student because they love BYU students there.) So this morning we set out to give him a haircut.
Normally I start each haircut by doing his whole head with a #8 clipper, so I put that on and then realized I forgot to oil the blade. I took the clipper off, oiled it, and without thinking started cutting with no clipper on at all! I did one cut, saw it, and fell to pieces. I proceeded to cry for about the next hour. I was certain that I had ruined his interview. I also felt so embarrassed because I knew all of our friends and family would know that I'm the only who spaced the clipper and did that to him. (This post is an attempt to not let him cover for me.)
I am, however, maybe the most fortunate girl ever because I have a husband who immediately laughed it off and comforted me. (Though in the comforting process he listed lots of people we know who've done the same thing and the first couple he listed was some of our friends who got divorced - great comfort.) He was super positive and told me that it was going to help him on his interview. I felt so happy to have married someone who reacted like that instead of getting mad at me for shearing him. It made me think about Elder Wirthlin's final
talk (an apostle in the LDS church) where he counseled people that if they would look back and laugh about a situation in later years, why not just laugh about it now? I'm so glad Brad did. Maybe someday soon, I'll be able to laugh about it too.

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